We all have an image of ourselves that we try to achieve. In our society it feels like it is a choice that we have to make, and with that choice comes a responsibility to maintain it. With that comes a feeling of being overwhelmed, asking ourselves is this really what we head in mind when making a choice or did we go wrong somewhere. There comes a point that our expectations that we had of ourselves become what everyone else expects of us. With all this come confusion and anxiety. It is almost as if we are drowning in that confusion.